Let’s Talk About Sex: Week 1

This is the first session of our fall 2015 Wednesday night Adult series. We’re making these podcasts available if you are unable to join us on Wednesday nights in the fellowship hall. You are also invited to join us on Sunday mornings from 9:30 to 10:15am in the parlor to discuss the previous Wednesday’s topic. These sessions will be led by Rev. Kristen Koger.

Tentative Schedule for the Series

Introductions and Context
September 9
Week 1 – Introduction, Ground Rules, and Big Questions

September 16
Week 2 – Sexuality and Objectification in Contemporary Culture

Sex and Sexuality in the Bible
September 23
Week 3 – Sex and Sexuality in the Old Testament, part 1

September 30
Week 4 – Sex and Sexuality in the Old Testament, part 2

October 7
Week 5 – Sex and Sexuality in the New Testament, part 1

October 14
Week 6 – Sex and Sexuality in the New Testament, part 2

Healthy Sexual Relationships Today
October 21
Week 7 – The Biology of Sexuality

October 28
Week 8 – Sex and Marriage

November 4
Week 9 – How to Talk to your Young Children about Sex and Sexuality

November 11
Week 10 – How to Talk to your Teenagers about Sex and Sexuality

November 18
Week 11 – How to have Difficult Conversations

December 2
Week 12 – Dealing with Shame and Guilt

December 9
Week 13 – Toward a New Theology of Sexuality (Closing session)

Have you seen our people?

Last week, ten excited youth and three brave adults packed up and drove to the University of Tennessee, where they participated in a week of youth camp called UniDiversity. This year, twenty-four churches and 462 participants gathered together to focus on the theme “It’s Complicated.” This theme was all about relationships, and we focused on the relationship between Peter and Jesus as we talked about trust, influence, pain, and purpose. Youth and adults alike wrestled with being vulnerable and accepting of others; they began to unpack how we are always in relationship with other people, and how we as Christians should treat others and be treated in those relationships; we talked about how we are influenced by those around us, and how we can work to be positive influences in the world; and we found ways to think about how we have been hurt in relationships, and hurt others, and how we can pick ourselves up with God’s help. It was a transformative and challenging week for everyone.

The title of this article speaks to the larger picture of UniDiversity. During the day, youth are mixed together into different groups. Often during the day, you would hear chaperones asking one another “Have you seen…?” Because for most of the day, youth were all over the place, building relationships with others; forming community. And we didn’t see each other a whole lot. But that was because youth were putting into action what we were focusing on this week- they were building relationships with one another. Between bible study, seminars, and electives, our youth were out meeting new folks and reconnecting with friends made last year. That’s a benefit of UniDiversity- since it only happens for one week in the summer, and many of the same churches return year after year, we are able to reunite with friends they haven’t seen since last year. The UniDiversity family is one of the strongest and most genuine I have ever encountered. And for that I am grateful.

As we return home, we return as a group who has been challenged to look at relationships differently. We are finding ways to be the presence of Christ in the world to all we cross paths with. On our last night at camp, we each offered a sentence prayer with the prompt “God, as I return home, help me to…” Each youth and adult based their prayer off something that touched them this past week. While all the prayers were meaningful and important, one prayer summed up the week: “God, as I return home, help me to love others, even when I don’t feel like loving them.” That’s the Gospel, friends. That’s what we are called to do in this world filled with meaningful, challenging, complicated relationships. So go- serving the complicated and mysterious God, and knowing that you have been equipped with the tools to navigate the world.

Rev. Kristen Koger

Pastoral Resident

 

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A good word from Dr. Art Wright, Minister of Spiritual Formation

Greetings from Bath County, Virginia! I’ve been spending most of my summer out at Camp Alkulana, supporting Beth and the staff here in the good work they are doing. Beth, Julian, and I have been in Richmond a couple of times this summer, though, and have been in regular touch via email and Facebook, so we’ve seen and heard testimony of the good things going on at church while we are out of town. It is a blessing to be able to see the ways God is at work both here at Camp Alkulana and at Tabernacle this summer. Beth, Julian, and I are excited to come back to Richmond full time in just a few more weeks. In the meantime we’re grateful for your support and encouragement as we finish out our summer of ministry at Alkulana.
While I’ve been away at Alkulana, I’ve been working on preparing for our discipleship programming at TBC for this fall. These last few weeks I’ve been working with Tracy Hartman planning our Wednesday evening programming. We’ll share more on that soon, but I do want you to know that I am excited about what we’ve been working on!
Earlier this summer I conducted an evaluation of our small group ministry at TBC, and the results were especially encouraging. Members of our four small groups helped me by participating in an online survey in June, the results of which reveal that many good things are happening in our small groups. Here are some of the highlights of the survey:
Responses are overwhelmingly positive in suggesting that small group members experience significant spiritual growth as they wrestle with the meaning of biblical texts and discuss the weekly sermon together. Members also report that they have been able to build deep, meaningful relationships through their small groups. Each week they share their personal stories of faith, break bread, fellowship together, and pray for one another and for our church. One of the things I hear most often when I talk to folks at our church is that they are seeking ways to build deeper relationships with others. I am happy to report that our small groups are meeting this vital need in our congregation. Our small group members are also active in caring for one another. They are small communities of faith within our larger church family, where people find opportunities to get to know one another deeply and in turn are deeply known. They share “life together,” in all that it entails.
As we look to the future of small group ministry at Tabernacle, I am hoping we can find ways to work a deeper sense of mission into the DNA of each small group. Our small groups already have a strong sense that God is calling us as a church to serve and participate in God’s activity in Richmond and in the world. This coming year I’m hoping that each small group will find new, relevant ways to use their collective gifts by engaging in mission together. As I look back and look ahead, it is clear that God is present and at work in our small group ministry. I’m excited about the future.
Tabernacle Baptist Church currently has four small group communities that meet weekly throughout the Richmond area. If you’re interested in joining one or helping to start a new small group, please contact Art at wright@tbcrichmond.org.